Is He Mr. Right?

Think your Mr. Next has the potential to be Mr. Right? Before you leap without looking, take an honest inventory. See how many of the following five essential traits he possesses.
Dating Trait #1: He listens to you
The best way to know if Mr. Next is interested in (and worthyof) being a candidate for Mr. Right? He listens to you. You'll know he's listening when he shows genuine concern, consistently remembers things you've told him (your birthday, favorite food, best friend's name, etc.), and offers emotional support in honest and thoughtful ways.

Dating Trait #2: He connects with you easily
We've all been in those relationships that take W-O-R-K (and suck the life force out of us in the process). When a relationship works on its own, it feels effortless, easy, and fluid. You don't have to force anything, forgive anyone, or turn a blind eye to red flags or gut-twisters. Instead, you communicate and collaborate with comfort, compatibility, and undeniable chemistry. If and when you experience this kind of interaction, you are on to something really special.

Dating Trait #3: He wants the real you
So often, women feel the need to sacrifice some part of themselves to make a relationship work. In the right relationship, there's no need. You don't have to hide, tone down, or apologize for any aspect of you or your fabulous life. With the right partner, you're not only able to be yourself, but you're better able to be the best version of your most authentic self -- no compromises needed.

Dating Trait #4: He's trustworthy
A relationship without trust is doomed from the start. But a relationship with abundant trust? A fabulous foundation for real and lasting love! Built over time, trust is based on the simple belief system that your partner has your best interests at heart and will never intentionally hurt you (and vice versa). If and when you discover that Mr. Next is 100 percent trustworthy, you'll have no trouble giving your heart to him. In return, he'll most likely give you his heart and pave the way for a lasting, loving relationship to unfold.

Dating Trait #5: He enriches your life
In the wrong relationship, your partner tears you to emotional shreds, brings you down, and in general drains your energy. In the right relationship, he enriches your life, inspires you to be your best self, and brings a sense of peace and possibility to you. You'll know Mr. Next is enriching your life if and when he encourages and supports you professionally, personally, and spiritually. And when he does, he may just be Mr. Right!
Does your Mr. Next possess all five qualities? If so, congratulations! You have done your homework, chosen wisely, and are now well positioned for relationship success.
If not, pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and get back into the dating pool with a clearer understanding of who you want to date. Remember, finding your life partner isn't always easy, but by being clear, honoring yourself, and acting accordingly, you'll cut down on wasted time with Mr. Wrong and Mr. Next, and ultimately make room for Mr. Right.


“A relationship without trust is doomed from the start.”

the next station happiness~

幸福它是个潘朵拉的盒子，一切迷题都在里面打开它可能会改变我们现在所拥有的幸福~有些事有些人它只不过是生命中的过路客，经过了就没必要回头因为我们谁都不是~
Happiness It is a Pandora's box, all the puzzle are on the inside to open it may change the way we now have the happiness ~ some things some people it is nothing in life passerby, after no need to go back because we are who are not ~

i love him~❤

I love him, and vigorous wildest. Severely broken off my dream will never be forgotten, offered him that tomorrow is the future. No matter how bad the circumstances are not willing to wake up ~

love meaning❤

我爱你，不是一种玩笑一但说出口了就要付上责任~不要轻易的说出口如果你不是真的爱，所做的伤害是你永远感觉不到的只有被伤的人才知道伤的多深~我想你，是一种对爱表达思念。在我的字典里，只能爱与不爱~从来不曾暧昧。
I love you, is not a joke, but one that will pay an export duty of ~ Do not say the export if you do not really love, the harm done is that you never feel hurt people only have been aware of injuries How deep ~ I think you, is an expression of yearning for love. In my dictionary, only love and not love ~ never been ambiguous.

In fact, you do not understand men

1 She was always asked: Where are you? You now why? (She was very miss you just want to say you say, you do not give her a message, she was very contradictory, for fear you're busy, but could not resist miss you. for others, love Why Why, she did not care. so you had time, greeting her, let her rest assured that let her know that you have her heart, she will not bother you. She was always active contact you, she will feel she was cheap.)

2 She said: I am not happy, I Hao Fan. (Do not blame her vexatious, not to feel that she is annoying you, she is not really happy, she just wanted to you. Just want you to comfort her, even if it is: well-behaved, Bienao, and obedient!)

3 She said: Do not cold. / Road carefully. / Himself more attention to the ... ... (do not bother her too. Because she knows you're not stupid, or even very smart. She just want to let you know that she thought that you, she was want to care about you).

FROM~❤Masaki 工藤's “爱”会因为相处久了而转淡吗？（同居）

本身经历一场很努力要挽回的爱情
可是感觉，当中不是我不配合，而是故事的男主角

3个月以来，我一天比一天更爱他
可是，就是因为两个月前我们同居的关系

我感觉我们彼此的感情转淡了，就那么短短的3个月
应该是我多心，我顾虑太多

两个月前，我们彼此手拖手，抱抱都毫不尴尬
可是两个月后，感觉彼此好生涩，碰到彼此的手，都感觉很不自然

我又因为这件事，而和他吵架，我对他说，为什么走在街上，男朋友都会拖女朋友得手
但唯有你不会！ 他却对我说，这些不必表露出来给人家看我们有多恩爱的

自己心知就好，可是却对一个女生来说，这是很必需的东西
有好几次，我提出抱抱的需求，可是，他每次都拒绝我

从此以后，我有了阴影，出街我们都不拖手，在家也不拥抱，甚至情侣的基本事情
都没有了..... 昨天，我整天不出声，他却无所不知，我们就背对背睡觉了

以前他都会主动抱着我，因为我很难入睡。
可是，渐渐这些事情都没有再发生过了

好几次我都好像回家，是不是这样，他才会更加珍惜我们这段感情呢？
可是，他每次都抓着我的手，叫我别回！

我能怎么样呢？心是如此的软....最后还是留下来了
这段爱，真的还能维持下去吗？

请告诉我

教えてください..........

FROM~❤Masaki 工藤's “知人口面不知心 人不可貌相 相片不可当真”

某天，我在facebook看见有X位来自马来西亚的女生...
相信是鼎鼎有名的夯女生..
我就对我的男朋友说!! 哇赛....你看!! 这女生好漂亮//
怎么知道我男朋友对我说..

“你不要逼我吐了好吗？ 这些照片根本就是骗人的，看了她本人。”
你就知道什么是鬼了。

我心里想，并没有那么糟糕吧？
怎么知，某一天，在某处看见了那个女生！！
O.O" 哇.......真得很震撼！！

我写这篇网志只是想提醒各位，
“不要只看表面，看什么东西，都得眼见为凭”
“照片是美的，也许看出真实物后，在下定论，也还不迟”

我也不例外.. その実。
:")

希望大家提高警觉，无论是男是女，都必须看清楚了对方。
看起来表面是美的，但心？你我都无法下定论。

正所谓 “知人口面不知心” ご注意