你快乐，所以我快乐...

when i was 15, this statement for me meant: when you laugh, i will laugh (as we are happy)...

when i was 20, this statement meant when i know you are happy, i will be happy; we are together and i can "feel" your mood.

and now, i realised it can be even different... the statement means: when you are happy, i am happy too, even we are no longer together, or even we are no longer friends, but when i know you are happy, i will feel happy, and i am happy for you...

time has made us become wiser and better in terms of thinking and transforming...
we mature a lot while we experience different problems, hardship, and stages in life...
we learn not to escape from reality when there are difficulties and imperfection;
we learn how to adapt to changes in life when that is a must;
we learn to care about other's feeling and be happy when somebody else is...

you are happy and thus i am happy too...

体谅

我们都知道，要别人体谅我们,首先我们要学会体谅别人.. 所谓的体谅， 其实就是站在对方的角度看问题。

年少的时候，我们都比较任性，不顾别人的感受为所欲为。 想要什么就吵着闹着要， 也没顾及当时状况和其他人的感受。 长大之后， 发现每个人都有不同的性格和想法，所以意见不和是人之常情的。要化解分歧，就要学习如何站在对方的角度看问题。将心比心是体谅别人的第一准则。

道理我们都明白，但有多少人学会真正体谅别人呢？我想，站在对方的角度看问题之余，别忘了叫对方也站在你的角度看问题， 双方一起学习体谅， 那会更有效地化解分歧吧 ；）

classic love quote tat i love❤

* I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you.
* No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won't make you cry.
* The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you can‘t have them.
* Never frown, even when you are sad, because you never know who is falling in love with your smile.
* Just because someone doesn‘t love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.
* Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the person, we will know how to be grateful.
* Don‘t cry because it is over, smile because it happened.

郭采潔-I Need You!!!